I'm 13 and I need help from grownups, please?

Your mother will always be close to you and you will always be close to her you have bonds and nothing can break them but also dont be afraid to have things and a life of your own separate from her this will help with your sanity later.........TRUST ME my mom and i were the same as you and yours but as I grew up I wanted to be able to figure things out for myself things like "should i continue dating this guy", "should i change my hair style" just regular simple stuff but i wanted to figure it out myself but because i did tell her everything she had very strong opinions about what was going on in my life i started to feel like she was controlling me and it caused lots of fighting between us Im now 25 and my mother and I only talk about once a week because of the all fighting that when on between us